Showing posts with label distance relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label distance relationship. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

1-12-2010 (Now a seven year story...)



1st of December: A day destined to be, a day I chose to be as the day to propose my love. Seven years have passed since then. It seems long and short. I often wonder is it me. Me being the last person on this planet to stick to something, being the partly true Gemini that I am, being the ever fleeting wind and being the change lover always, is here, scoring good. But isn’t that’s what love is? It happens and when it happens, there is no denying it.

The years have not been all the rosy ones. No one ever gets all the roses only I guess. So, quite unexceptionally, the same ups and downs of which we all know about did indeed happen with us too. And like all of you, I too feel proud that we are together and it’s still “US”. This is the only thing I ever got right in my life. When the day is a long one and a bad one, as I take a break from work and call her up, I realize how tougher it could have been had she not been there for me.

Today, as I sit here writing this post, I don’t feel the need of writing anything else. Putting down anything as to how much I love her and how we can rock together and how happy we can be etc makes me wonder if it would belittle the event, its story and its importance. I just want to be together.

@GOD: Thanks...once again. :)

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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Sad and Happy

It is sad and it is not……..and it goes as below…..

My love wanted to do her MBA summer internships in finance in sync with her choice. And due to her college placement cell super brains, she now has to do it in Marketing. The time given to decide to sign up for the program was a day and one was needed to procure the offer letter if at all one chooses to do it somewhere else or else sign it. We were counting on a few contacts which we had as options but getting corporate things done in a day is herculean. I can understand that money matters and colleges and universities are tools of earning big and recruitment and trainings are the season to go for the kill. Sadly, a candidate would always find it difficult as it is about his/her career. She is sad and so am I.

But the training location is my city and the duration is three and a half month and it encapsulates two biggies like the Valentine’s Day and her birth day. I am happy that togetherness is near. By the mid of next month, she will be here. It is yet to sink down into me. I am still not able to have it all. Let me tell you, it is a dream sorts and none the less…..distance relationships suck where in phone ringtones/vibrations are the beats your heart play, words are all you have got, distance is what remains from the start to the end, missing someone becomes habitual and common, being alone is no more a behavior but a nature, and many more………..and when it ends even for a day, you see where you were, what you have and what all you need from life to be alive.